Comments on: Whose Fault Is It Anyway? http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/ Product Creation, Traffic, List Building, Automation = Internet Business Tue, 17 Jan 2012 09:43:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: What Have You Learned? | Frank Haywood http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-10154 What Have You Learned? | Frank Haywood Sat, 23 Feb 2008 10:47:03 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-10154 [...] you take has consequences.  And that those actions are your decision and your decision alone.  Whose fault is it [...]

[...] you take has consequences.  And that those actions are your decision and your decision alone.  Whose fault is it [...]

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]]> By: Donna Maher http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9976 Donna Maher Wed, 16 Jan 2008 21:46:27 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9976 Frank, another right-on article about why we succeed or fail. It's the law of attraction at work every moment, whether or not we choose to acknowledge it. We attract bad things just as easily as good things, since everything is energy anyway. The hardest 'pill' I ever had to swallow in my entire life was the "I am responsible for everything that's happened to me and everything that is wrong in my life today." I just wish I'd learned it in my twenties... oh the grief I'd have saved. Thank you AGAIN for spawning some outstanding commentary and for sharing from your heart, as you always do. Just part of why I love you so much! I wish I'd been that wise when I was your age... I'd be a billionaire by now!!!! Donna "A forever FH Fan"

Frank, another right-on article about why we succeed or fail. It's the law of attraction at work every moment, whether or not we choose to acknowledge it. We attract bad things just as easily as good things, since everything is energy anyway.

The hardest 'pill' I ever had to swallow in my entire life was the "I am responsible for everything that's happened to me and everything that is wrong in my life today." I just wish I'd learned it in my twenties… oh the grief I'd have saved.

Thank you AGAIN for spawning some outstanding commentary and for sharing from your heart, as you always do.

Just part of why I love you so much! I wish I'd been that wise when I was your age… I'd be a billionaire by now!!!!

Donna "A forever FH Fan"

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]]> By: Steve Roberts http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9970 Steve Roberts Tue, 15 Jan 2008 23:10:39 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9970 Dead right Frank, Absolutely agree. There are 2 parts to this, -the things in our life that we can control. One of the problems here is that many people don't or won't accept that they do have control over most of the issues that are affecting them. -the things in our life that we don't have control over - like government decisions, interest rate rises etc. There is no point wasting energy blaming the people that have made those decisions, your energy is much better spent dealing with your new situation and working out how you are going to best deal with it. Get over it and get on with it! Thanks for the article it is always good to read these things from time to time, just so we can smarten up our act again. Regards Steve

Dead right Frank,
Absolutely agree. There are 2 parts to this, -the things in our life that we can control. One of the problems here is that many people don't or won't accept that they do have control over most of the issues that are affecting them.
-the things in our life that we don't have control over – like government decisions, interest rate rises etc.
There is no point wasting energy blaming the people that have made those decisions, your energy is much better spent dealing with your new situation and working out how you are going to best deal with it.
Get over it and get on with it!
Thanks for the article it is always good to read these things from time to time, just so we can smarten up our act again.
Regards
Steve

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]]> By: Fisayo Adeyemi http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9969 Fisayo Adeyemi Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:07:56 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9969 You are correct only to some extent...I think. I'm more with Bob Marconi but we just have to use every obstacle as a stepping stone. This is so important so that we don't dance much to the tune of circumstances beyond our control. And note that every good thing you could record about yourself, whether putting ideas into products or whatever, just count your self lucky. Some people would do better than you but..CIRCUMSTANCES! On personal discussions, I share some of these things.

You are correct only to some extent…I think.

I'm more with Bob Marconi but we just have to use every obstacle as a stepping stone. This is so important so that we don't dance much to the tune of circumstances beyond our control.

And note that every good thing you could record about yourself, whether putting ideas into products or whatever, just count your self lucky.

Some people would do better than you but..CIRCUMSTANCES!

On personal discussions, I share some of these things.

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]]> By: Marthe Dumas http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9968 Marthe Dumas Tue, 15 Jan 2008 21:56:18 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9968 Hi Frank, I'm glad to find someone who think like me. My late husband always uses a Shakespeare phrase that sound a little bit like that. '' Be strong and loyal towards yourself'' meaning, it's the decision that you take that gone decide of your life. I think the same thing. People must learn that responsability is not culpability. You must say to yourself: OK I choose the wrong path. That's it that's all. Now, I learn from it and I continu in an order way. Don't beat your head on the wall. Marthe

Hi Frank,

I'm glad to find someone who think like me.

My late husband always uses a Shakespeare phrase that sound a little bit like that. " Be strong and loyal towards yourself" meaning, it's the decision that you take that gone decide of your life. I think the same thing.
People must learn that responsability is not culpability. You must say to yourself: OK I choose the wrong path. That's it that's all. Now, I learn from it and I continu in an order way.
Don't beat your head on the wall.

Marthe

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]]> By: Bob Marconi http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9967 Bob Marconi Tue, 15 Jan 2008 20:24:27 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9967 Sorry, I respectfully disagree with you! When something goes wrong for me and I look in the mirror it's 'that other guy' I see, not me! My alter ego. The April Fool Baby - yes that's my birthday! So I have someone to blame! Bob

Sorry, I respectfully disagree with you!

When something goes wrong for me and I look in the mirror it's 'that other guy' I see, not me! My alter ego.

The April Fool Baby – yes that's my birthday! So I have someone to blame!

Bob

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]]> By: Peter Williamson http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9966 Peter Williamson Tue, 15 Jan 2008 19:40:30 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9966 Hey Frank, Your words may be tough but true. People of today want to may things handed to them. You are responsible for you own lot in life. Realize this and things will be better for you in the long run. Thanks for the great reading. Thank Peter

Hey Frank,

Your words may be tough but true.
People of today want to may things handed to them. You are responsible for you own lot in life. Realize this and things will be better for you in the long run. Thanks for the great reading.

Thank
Peter

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]]> By: grumpy http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9965 grumpy Tue, 15 Jan 2008 17:31:45 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9965 Hi Frank, Interesting theory but I dare say just a little harsh. It's really not fair to blame people for things that they have no control over. I have "taken your steps" and nothing's altered. 'I’m going to create a product, and I’m going to offer it for sale online.' Well, it's STILL offered for sale but, after eight months I'm still waiting for my first sale. That was my SECOND product - the first has been "on sale" 14 months and has produced ONE sale. OK so I have no idea what you are talking about when you say "working on the traffic". How can you work on traffic? Anyway, this is long enough and boring enough so I'll be off. Those pretty "Bookmark It' pictures, do they actually DO anything? Surely, if you bookmark something, it's on your own PC. No use bookmarking anything on someone else's site. See ya.

Hi Frank,
Interesting theory but I dare say just a little harsh.
It's really not fair to blame people for things that they have no control over.
I have "taken your steps" and nothing's altered.
'I’m going to create a product, and I’m going to offer it for sale online.'
Well, it's STILL offered for sale but, after eight months I'm still waiting for my first sale.
That was my SECOND product – the first has been "on sale" 14 months and has produced ONE sale.
OK so I have no idea what you are talking about when you say "working on the traffic". How can you work on traffic?

Anyway, this is long enough and boring enough so I'll be off.

Those pretty "Bookmark It' pictures, do they actually DO anything?
Surely, if you bookmark something, it's on your own PC. No use bookmarking anything on someone else's site.

See ya.

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]]> By: Ernie Hodge http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9964 Ernie Hodge Tue, 15 Jan 2008 17:12:20 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9964 Great article Frank. This is one of the bigger reasons the world is in the shape it is in today. No one wants to take responsibility for the things they have done or are doing. Thanks for putting it they way you have. I may want to put this on one of my web sites, with your permission of course.

Great article Frank. This is one of the bigger reasons the world is in the shape it is in today. No one wants to take responsibility for the things they have done or are doing. Thanks for putting it they way you have. I may want to put this on one of my web sites, with your permission of course.

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]]> By: Dan B Cauthron http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/comment-page-1/#comment-9963 Dan B Cauthron Tue, 15 Jan 2008 16:31:42 +0000 http://www.frankhaywood.com/whose-fault-is-it-anyway/#comment-9963 O Frank - truer words were never spoken .... sounds like you've spent a ton on therapy, or else you know Bill W. pretty well Wishing all the best Dan B. Cauthron

O Frank – truer words were never spoken ….

sounds like you've spent a ton on therapy, or else you know Bill W. pretty well

Wishing all the best
Dan B. Cauthron

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